Cific bottom he choice worked and Pre-Suasion: Channeling Attention for Change they re often presented alongside an examplehat is different if not opposite Teach to emphasizehe personal nature of each choiceThe hypnofetish chapter is perhaps Revenge Encyclopedia the least directly instructive and in fact mostly forgoes direct instruction onhe premise Jovita Idar that in depth information on howo induce hypnosis is accessible and better obtained from Homewrecker those with expertise The limited instruction is focused on howo connect hypnosis methods You Dont Know Me Like That to your kinks or other intentions and Flagg continues ono explore what you can do with hypnosis and identify what you can expect out of itI really appreciated Iraq, the Contemporary State the mindfuck chapter for honing in on howo make mindfuck work The longest chapter and Dragonwatch (Wytch Kings, the most example heavy it is based around buildinghe conceptual The Last Snowfall (Stand Tall, tools for mindfuck andhen showing how Dry-Curing Pork: Make Your Own Salami, Pancetta, Coppa, Prosciutto, and More (Countryman Know How) to implementhem as well as how not The Gin Closet to It s well paired withhe humiliation chapter The World That Came in from the Cold that follows which works along a similar conceptual focus The humiliation chapter is byhe way worlds apart from humiliation guides and workshops Transportation! that I ve seen inhe past It wastes no Charming Ophelia timeelling Dandruff that some people find being called a slut or forcedo crossdress humiliating and where possible focuses on why various actions can effect certain desired feelings as well as attempting Give Me Fever to separate out what some ofhose feelings are They re he wo activity focused chapters I felt I ook he most away from hat I can most immediately apply o my kinkConditioning and interrogation were he most direc. Es not attempt o reach The Champion (Medieval Warriors Trilogy, the vanilla public This book addresses control it addresses change The recreational uses of humiliation conditioning psychologicalorture hypnotism and interrogation echniues are explored.
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Tly instructive chapters The conditioning one is well done it didn A Christmas Scandal (Christmas t contain much I didn already know but it pulled what I did know into a framework I found useful The interrogation chapter on he other hand caught me by surprise with how much I did know Apparently I ve been using one of he Tito Santanas Tales from the Ring techniues mentioned in interpersonal non kink contexts and knowing it sets people off guard andotally not understanding what I was doing or what impact exactly it was happening Yikes Sorry So now I have a better sense of what Biker Daddy thoseools are Healing Trauma that I ve been using and howo use The Accidental Engagement (Chance Romance, them better as well as identify when others are usinghem These are he wo activity focused chapters No Journeys End that gave mehe most meat The Merry Viscount (Widows Brew, to chew onIt ends with a brief acknowledgement of uestions people bring ino The Way Back this sort of play and a validation of choice as a response followed by Flagg s experience in finding his wayhrough kink and leather communities o his play in which he repeats what I already knew but can always bear being reminded most kink isn like his many kinky people want nothing Life In The Slow Lane to do withhis many find The Devils Temptation this kind of activity reprehensible abusive or problematic or simplify ito role play and never get o he point of Its the Best Day Ever, Dad! terror Beyond as a reminder it was helpfulo me Lives of the Circus Animals to hear someone with different experiences in different communities sharinghis specific oneI wish it was about Rides a Stranger threeimes as long but I appreciate he size as being very easy o pass on Crossing Brooklyn Ferry to um people who I d likeo see doing some bad bad Gretchen things. And laid bare broken into usable steps and understandable applicable concepts It is a workshop of ruinhe Straits of Fortune tools necessaryo cement lasting alteration and unforgettable experiences for Harrys Pony those few whoruly crave h.